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      <image:caption>In one graveyard your life is coming back together. You find the boy you lost. He’s dewy as a lily in the rain. The other ghosts are with him. The police detective. The man with musical hands and a head full of sorrow. The dog with the pink heart across her nose. The woman with the dentures and the one who wore a wig—they still speak to you some nights. And the forever girl on the couch with the red hair and the crumpled pack of Pall Malls. In another the dog that changed your life zooms around you until she is tired and stuffs her nose into your armpit, then you both go out and lie down in a baseball field and stare up at the dragonflies and the stars. And even though you know she is dead, you both remember that time the old lady tried to steal her, and you remember how she healed you. In one graveyard no language is ever lost and no love is ever lost, only the two-way ladder of its limitations. In one graveyard you are outside the helix of worry, a force field made of broken wings. In another you know you shouldn’t, but you wish you never were. In this garden there is as much cruelty in the earth as there is in the heart. In this graveyard you worry about her lonely bones. In this garden the owls are technicolor. Their song is picked up by the soft wind. In this garden you never become attached to the poison. In this graveyard you could watch the red dog breathe for days. In this one the club is never carved, the fire never lit, the sharp stone never fastened to the edge of anything, and nothing ever hurtles through the air. In this graveyard no one ever died at the hands of a stranger holding a machine. In this garden no one was ever forced onto any boat. In this garden your brother listens when you tell him to be easy on himself. He sits under the tree, petals sprouting from his hands. -from The Eight Graveyards by Ad Dunn</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>"If there weren't light, this stone would look cut off where it drops clearly from the shoulders, its skin wouldn't gleam like the fur of a wild animal, and the body wouldn't send out light from every edge as a star does... for there is no place at all that isn't looking at you. You must change your life." -From Archaic Torso of Apollo by Rainer Maria Rilke, translated by Robert Bly</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>"If there weren't light, this stone would look cut off where it drops clearly from the shoulders, its skin wouldn't gleam like the fur of a wild animal, and the body wouldn't send out light from every edge as a star does... for there is no place at all that isn't looking at you. You must change your life." -From Archaic Torso of Apollo by Rainer Maria Rilke, translated by Robert Bly</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>AD Dunn is a trans writer, editor, abolitionist, and lawyer in training. They are co-author of two cookbooks, Dinner at the Long Table and Saltie: A Cookbook, and served for a decade as editor of Diner Journal. They have been published by Brooklyn Based, The Center for Fiction, FAQNP, Famous Magazine, Hunger Mountain, Brooklyn Rail, and had a short story featured in the anthology It Occurs to Me that I Am America alongside many of their heroes.  They spent the year they got top surgery publishing a small magazine at Rikers Island with a group of trans and cis women and trans men, which strengthened their steadfast belief in carceral abolition. They have worked for the Mississippi Workers Center for Human Rights, The Mississippi Center for Justice, and are excited to intern for the Office of the Capital Defender in Atlanta, Georgia this summer. They have been named a 2023 Sorensen Center Peace and Justice Fellow. Their cat is their harshest critic. For queries email thievesediting@gmail.com!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The next morning you are still high from holding her as you walk home to find Henry on your stoop holding a cat. He shoves it into your arms and says, Here. I found it in a dumpster. I’ll die if something happens to it. You are about to ask him in for coffee when he gets back into his car and drives away. The cat licks your shoulder and tries to bite at your ear. Inside, the red dog seems taken with this new creature. You think about Henry’s growing attachment to the wounded. You pour some milk in a bowl and add cat food to the list on the refrigerator that reads: spatula, paint for the living room, box grater, call the electrician about the fixture in the hallway, find a surgeon who takes your insurance, milk, and now cat food. You cross off a few things; ones you think about every day and never do. Last time Henry had been over for dinner he had scrawled at the bottom of the page in red ink: Having a list is almost as good as having. At the supermarket to buy cat food you stop in the cafeteria to eat lunch and catch up on reading. You are at the corner of a long table sitting beside a quiet Middle Eastern family. There are four of them, father, teenage boy, a slightly younger girl, and a young boy who seems perhaps seven or eight. You watch as the younger boy reaches for his father’s food, the old man slapping his slender fingers away from the cardboard box of tabouli. When the boy hangs his head in shame the father beckons him back, fills a spoon, and hands it to him. None of them have said a word, which makes you curious about them, but to learn anything you would have to look directly at them and that feels strange, invasive. Still, you glance at them from time to time. The young boy is now playing with his plastic spoon, his older sister obviously annoyed, and then he loses control of it and the spoon slingshots through the air and lands, lentils splattering, in the center of your book. You pause, knowing he is watching, wondering how you will react, and you slowly reach down, pick up the spoon, and raise it to your lips as though you are going to eat the lentils and you and the boy both start laughing almost uncontrollably and the laughter breaks the silence and words come tumbling out of the boy, racing out of his mouth, his body shifting with each one as though words themselves were at the very heart of what animates him. He wants to know, Do you like movies? Have you seen any scary ones? Do you know about Chucky? He asks you if you are a boy or a girl and you shrug and he teaches you an elaborate handshake ritual that ends with the two of you pulling on each other’s earlobes. The girl tells you how much she loves Michael Jackson, gets up, and does a pretty good moonwalk, her slight form gliding across the cafeteria floor, sneakers squeaking on the tile. The teenage boy leans in and asks you what you are reading. You look down at the books; there are always two, as though your brain needs to be able to move in two divergent directions at all times. One is The Melodious Plot: Negative Capability, Keats, Axis Mundi, and Learning to Love Beyond Logic; the other is a dog-eared copy of Self-Esteem for Dummies that you picked up at a tag sale last summer. You can’t help but blush as you read the latter title out loud but when you look up the family is nodding thoughtfully. It occurs to you then that the father may be mute, that until you interrupted the family had been communicating in his language, a language made of gesture. For a moment you feel bad, as though you have inadvertently created a situation in which he might feel excluded. But when you nod back at him the father smiles and silently offers you a box of cookies. -from The Third Twin</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Read. Don't follow recipes. Cook with fire. Pick wild herbs. Talk to ghosts. Fail at aioli. Turn the clocks back. Turn the clocks around. Dinner at the Long Table, the debut cookbook of Brooklyn restaurateur Andrew Tarlow and Diner Journal editor Anna Dunn, invites you in very simple terms to participate. The book is a collection of dinners inspired by celebrations repeated over the years at the restaurants, as well as at home, with a focus on making food together for as many people as you can gather, as well as menus inspired by some of our favorite books in the cookbook compendium and beyond. Make a list, lose the list, remember what you've forgotten. Set the table. Listen to the music your friends make. Cook until you understand. Cook to keep the house warm.</image:caption>
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